Episode 19

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Published on:

13th Apr 2026

When trying harder is the problem

What if the thing holding you back… is how hard you're trying?

In this episode, we're unpacking two things almost no one talks about on a weight loss journey: obsession with the end result, and the burnout that quietly follows.

We get into what it actually looks like to fixate on one body part, one number, one dress size — and how that tunnel vision pulls you into self-sabotage before you even realise it's happening.

Courtney shares how she spent years only looking at her stomach in the mirror, completely blind to the progress everywhere else. If you've been there, you'll feel this one.

We also break down:

👉 Why the "finish line" mentality is one of the most damaging traps in weight loss

👉 How shifting to small, process-driven wins is what actually creates lasting change

👉 What burnout really looks like — and why most people don't recognise it until they've gone radio silent on their goals

👉 A practical toolkit for preventing and recovering from burnout: non-negotiables, sleep, stress reprogramming, and human connection

This one is equal parts honest and actionable.

Because prevention is always easier than the cure. And you deserve the best of yourself — not just the leftovers.

Been listening for a while and want the full picture?

We made a 50-minute training that walks through the four biggest reasons people stay stuck in the weight loss cycle, what to do instead, and what working with us inside The Weight Loss Podcast Academy actually looks like.

Watch it HERE ON YOUTUBE.

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About the Podcast

The Weight Loss Podcast
Real-world, no-BS weight loss with people who have done it themselves
The Weight Loss Podcast is a podcast focused on helping you lose the weight and never find it again in a realistic, sustainable and healthy way.

Hosts Matt and Courtney are a married couple who together have lost a combined 105kg/230lbs between them.

They'll share their own inspirational stories of weight loss and the mindset struggles behind it, as well as interview real people just like you who will share their own stories of struggle and success.

Along with tips, tools, resources and support to help you achieve your own goals, you'll get your questions answered in our regular Q&A segment!

If you've just started your weight loss journey, are well on your way through it or are maintaining your success and are looking to connect with like-minded people, this show is for you.

Matt and Courtney bring their own individual perspectives from a male and female point of view and aren't afraid to voice their opinions with each other so you can guarantee this show will be raw, real and relatable!